- Emotional Intelligence – what and how to develop
EI refers to a learned ability to perceive, understand and express our feelings accurately and to control our emotions so that they work for us, not against us.
EI is about- Knowing how you and others feel and what to do about it
- Knowing what feels good and what feels good and what feels bad and how to cope with them
- Possessing emotional awareness, sensitivity and the management skills that will help us to maximize our long-term happiness and survival
- Why EI is growing to be more important
- The changing of nature of work: flatter structures, less hierarchical, greater responsibility
- Increasing complexity of business: technology has a great impact on reshaping jobs
- Rise in competition: shorter product life cycle, more demanding customers
- Globalization of markets: organizations need to think global, yet act local
- Rapid change: change a constant feature of organization life
- Emergence of self-managed career: no more jobs for life
- The growing need to maximize self performance : not just know how, but ability to do
- Research evidence: IQ + EQ = Success
- How to develop your EI:
- Self awareness – the ability to see ourselves with our own eyes: goals, beliefs, values, drivers, rules. Self-talk
- Emotion management – the ability to manage or emotions effectively
- Self-motivation – pursuing our goals with commitment, passion, energy and persistence
- Interpersonal Intelligence – the ability to create relationship and building effective networks
- Emotional Coaching – the ability to develop others to resolve difference, solve problems, communicate effectively and become motivated
(Source : Working with Emotional Intelligence, Daniel Goleman, 1998 as quoted by Margaret Chapman, 2001)