People with high EI : Label their feelings, rather than labeling people or situations Distinguish between thought and feelings Take responsibility for their feelings Use their emotions to help make decisions Show respect for others’ feelings Feel energized, not angry Validate others’ feelings Practice getting a positive value from their negative emotions Don’t advice, command, […]
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‘If you want to win a man to your cause, first convince him that you are his sincere friend’ – Abraham LincolnHave you ever been in a situation where you meet someone for the first time and after a few minutes talk feel as if you are more like friends than strangers. if you have
One of the so many reasons that some people do not develop and cannot reach to the top is just self-denial. Many promising persons deny their talents. By denying their talents they show others that they contribute nothing to them. The second reason why people do not maximize their talents is postponing. ‘Tomorrow’ is the
Only shallow people judge by appearance (Oscar Wilde) If you are still afraid of your superior – you must be a working person. If you are afraid of losing your income – you might be an entrepreneur. But if you are afraid of being sued because you violate code of ethics, then you are entering
When you speak face-to-face with other human beings, their senses are taking in what you look like and how you sound. You don’t really know what the other person is feeling, his/her pasts or values. You can only guest unless you check out the facts. Pre-judgement can be a useful skill which helps you to
Avoid some wordy expressions. check on the list are some prime examples of phrases that amount to little more than ‘dead wood’. Most can be trimmed to a single word. Avoid Replace it with At the present time Now On the occasion of When, during Subsequent to After On the grounds that Because In spite
Developing an Assertive StyleAssertive behaviour is about expressing your feelings, thoughts and wishes, and standing up for your own basic rights without violating those of others. It’s about saying what you mean and having self-respect and respect for others. Assertive is a skill you can acquire, it is not a personality trait. You may find
You cannot always control circumstances. But you can control your own thoughts. In today’s skeptical environment, how you position and present yourself to your customers and prospective employer determines how much access to the marketplace you can ultimately achieve. How can you position and begin to present yourself effectively? Begin by focusing in the buyer’s
Focus on your work Do not concentrate heavily on details Keeping on top of trends in your industry and the world in general Your personal success directly corresponds to your network Treat both insider and outsider of your organization as client Admit mistakes and take responsibility for the right away Leaving a brief phone message
Things will go according to my plan. Some parts of my play won’t work, i don’t know which one I can control the events in my life. Unexpected events are bound to occur. I will have to be ready The world is logical and predictable. The world is chaotic and illogical The status quo is